Beta and correlation are related. If you express X and Y (say, S&P_Return and Gold_Return) as standardized variables, the correlation is the slope of the best fit line. Beta is the slope of the best fit line if the variables are unstandardized. Standardizing them just means expressing each variable as the distance from its mean divided by the standard deviation. Since standard deviation is how volatility is expressed, there is a relationship.
Now, beta tells you your best estimate of how much you expect the return of Gold to be for each 1% return (excess return, usually) in the S&P. In your example, it means that you expect Gold to go up 3.5% for each 1% that the S&P goes up. The volatilities are somewhat related here, in that some of the market’s variability and gold’s variability appear to be coming from the same source.
However, not all of gold’s variability comes from the market. There are other “idiosyncratic” and possibly speculative things that are affecting gold that are completely independent of what the S&P is doing. All of these things affect Gold’s volatility, and do so in ways that have nothing to do with the rest of the market. The best estimate of what Gold does is *still* that it will go up 3.5% for every 1% in the S&P. If the ideosyncratic component of volatility is high, then a scatterplot will have points widely scattered around a line with a slope of 3.5. If it is low, then they will fall pretty close to that line.
The correlation coefficient basically tells you how scattered the points are around the line. So you can have a high beta, and yet a fairly low correlation. That means that S&P has a strong effect on Gold returns, but that lots of other things are influencing Gold and/or the S&P independently. You can have the opposite: low beta and high correlation - that means that large market movements don’t seem to affect the asset price very much, but that whatever changes do happen to the asset price come mostly from the market.
Beta: How much does market movement affect your asset’s movements
Correlation: How completely does market movement explain your asset’s movement (i.e. how much other stuff is contributing to your asset’s return)
Does that help at all?