Just got a sh!$%y phone call....

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Would You Look

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at the WORST possible time…
My mother informed me that my stepfather has been admitted to the hospital with severe blockage around his heart…
Open heart surgery tomorrow. Studying is going to have to take the back seat for a couple days.
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Sorry to hear that, but you’ll be fine. Take a few days to focus on your family and then when you can, jump back in and hit it hard for the last week. You won’t forget everything you’ve learned in a couple days. Hope your stepdad comes through ok.
 
I feel your pain. My brother passed away unexpectedly last Monday. Studying has been extremely difficult to say the least….
 
MGR250 wrote:
I feel your pain. My brother passed away unexpectedly last Monday. Studying has been extremely difficult to say the least….
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D**n… my sincerest condolences. I feel like a jackass now for putting “WORST” in the subject line. I wish you and your family the best.
 
Sorry to hear that. Hope he gets well soon. As WCT2010 mentioned you won’t forget the reading in couple of days. Stay strong and Good Luck!
 
Good look, I’m sorry for the stress you will go through. On the bright side, this is not the worst phone call you could have gotten.
 
Would You Look at That wrote:
MGR250 wrote:
I feel your pain. My brother passed away unexpectedly last Monday. Studying has been extremely difficult to say the least….
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D**n… my sincerest condolences. I feel like a jackass now for putting “WORST” in the subject line. I wish you and your family the best.
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Thank you i appreciate that. I feel for you as well and hope your stepdad pulls through this.
I stumbled on this somehow in the wake of everything and it has somewhat allowed me to remain focused as much as i can so i thought i would share.
The Stockdale Paradox:
You must retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties.
AND at the same time…
You must confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they may be.
 
JSobes wrote:
Good look, I’m sorry for the stress you will go through. On the bright side, this is not the worst phone call you could have gotten.
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Exactly… it can always be worse. It’s all about perspective and MGR made me quickly realize that. As mentioned in my post above, I feel terrible for putting “worst” in the subject line.
 
MGR250 wrote:
Would You Look at That wrote:
MGR250 wrote:
I feel your pain. My brother passed away unexpectedly last Monday. Studying has been extremely difficult to say the least….
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D**n… my sincerest condolences. I feel like a jackass now for putting “WORST” in the subject line. I wish you and your family the best.
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Thank you i appreciate that. I feel for you as well and hope your stepdad pulls through this.
I stumbled on this somehow in the wake of everything and it has somewhat allowed me to remain focused as much as i can so i thought i would share.
The Stockdale Paradox:
You must retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties.
AND at the same time…
You must confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they may be.
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Is this realy a paradox? You will win, but you must confront what is preventing you from winning first. Seems more logical than paradoxical.
 
yikes man, sorry to hear the bad news.
Hope the surgery goes well and he’s back on his feet in no time.
 
Sorry to you and MGR both.
Hopefully your stepdad will have a good recovery and RIP to MGR’s brother.
Wish you both good luck.. I have seen you two post here and you sure have worked hard. Hopefully focusing on your family for few days won’t hurt you in exam.
 
Sorry to hear that, dude.
My thoughts go to you and your family.
I wish him the best for the operation.
 
MGR250 wrote:
I feel your pain. My brother passed away unexpectedly last Monday. Studying has been extremely difficult to say the least….
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My deepest condolences. That’s rough :*( but on the positive side, maybe his spirit will be with you on exam day to help you pass:) Can’t underestimate spritual power from the “other side”.
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Prayers for your stepdad with open heart surgery. At least you’re not the one who needs open heart surgery right before the exam lol :o) Take some flash cards with you to the hospital and don’t pick up hospital germs!
 
Sorry to hear would you look. Hope it all comes through okay.
And while its no doubt a distraction, good luck for the exam, knock it out of the park.
 
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