I think risk-aversion means that the investor is only likely to invest when she sees a +ve risk premium . That means the bet must pay off more than the certain payoff ( otherwise known as risk-free rate) by a probabilty-weighted margin .
A typical lottery offers outsize rewards at very very low probability levels , making the expected return quite low compared to the risk free alternative i.e. the risk-premium is negative
The risk seeking individual will take the bet especially when the risk premium is negative . So for example the certain bet which pays off little is not attractive to them because it has a low or zero risk premium .
In other words risk-seeking individuals do not consider probabilities or perhaps ignore them .
The risk-averse individual takes probabilities into account and will prefer the certain bet over the uncertain one when the payoffs are probability-equivalent . Also she will take her risk-aversion parameter into account . Even when there is probability-equivalence , she has a utility function which weights risk higher ( i.e. more negative ) than return to a degree , so she is likely to prefer the certain bet over the uncertain one up to a point where the reward of the risky bet exceeds a function-multiple of the risk. Theorists have proposed quadratic, log and variable utility functions among many others
The risk-neutral individual is indifferent between the certain equivalent bet and the uncertain one when the probability-equivalence is same. He will go or not go for the zero risk premium case with indiffference