Frankly I am appalled to see the kind of mean spirited replies that this thread has elicited.
If you cannot help the person who is in serious anxiety, dont poke fun and make it worse for them. It is not funny.
Life is pretty much like markets - doesnt go up in straight line all the time. And while you may laugh at someone else’s misfortune today, you may very well be on the short end of the stick another day.
To the thread poster - I cant really help you as I dont know much about the process. But I can imagine this must be a tough time for you. Keep your chin up mate and take the genuine advice that you get from fellow forum members. I wish you all the best.